Thursday, March 19, 2009

Appreciation Day

APPRECIATION DAY


On the last Sunday of this month, March 29, our congregation is hosting a "Law Appreciation Day." In January we hosted an "EMS Appreciation Day." We have plans to host two more Appreciation Days this year.

An Appreciation Day can be a great experience for a church and the community. You might want to consider hosting one. Below are some questions and answers you might have.

How do we host an Appreciation Day?

You simply select a group from the community to invite to a service and have a meal afterward in their honor. For example, churches I have served in Florida, Wyoming and Kansas have all had Appreciation Days. Groups we have invited have been the Law Enforcement agencies, Emergency Medical Service, Fire Department and schools. Every person in the organization or agency is invited along with their families. For example, if you invite a police department, then the officers, jailers and dispatchers and all of their families are invited.

What is the benefit of doing this?

It is healthy for churches to be concerned about how the community perceives them. Since we are the light of Christ, it is important that the community recognizes His light in us. That light shines by our care, concern and ministry in the community. An Appreciation Day is one way to let our light shine.

An Appreciation Day provides an opportunity to overcome some of the negative impressions that a community might have for a church, and to actually develop positive impressions. Visitors from the town that might not ever associate with a particular body of Christians are invited for a service, are given sincere expressions of thanks, and are treated to a meal.

Does it work?

Yes! Communities often identify their churches by the fights and splits that have occurred within them over the years. They don’t soon forget when the preacher and a deacon got into a shouting (or even shoving) match in the very building where they claim to preach truth and love!

Fellowshiping with community members in worship and with an enjoyable meal afterwards can soften some of the harsh and painful memories people harbor. Long term friendships often develop.

Can we get new members from hosting an Appreciation Day?

Not often, but sometimes. The real purpose is not to "recruit" new church members. It is to show sincere appreciation to involved members of your community with no strings attached.

What are some of the exact steps in hosting an Appreciation Day?

1) Decide what group in your community you want to recognize.
If there has been a terrible accident in your community, that might be a good time to recognize the EMS.

2) Talk personally to the leaders of the groups you want to honor.
Speak to the Sheriff, Chief of Police, Head of the EMS, principal of a school, etc. Let them know you appreciate their work and service and want to honor them.

3) Follow your personal visit with a letter from the church office.
Every police and sheriff’s department I have ever invited to an Appreciation Day provided us with personal addresses of the officers to send them letters. Stress that family members are invited. Also, if an officer is on duty that morning and can’t attend the service, stress that he can stop by during the potluck and have lunch, even if he has to take it with him.

4) You can follow the church letter with a handwritten one from a group within the church, such as the ladies group. This letter does two things. One, it reinforces your invitation. Two, it involves more folks from the church, allowing them to feel some ownership in the project.

5) Encourage the church members to make their usual amount of food plus plenty of extras!

6) Preach a sermon that morning on a topic that will resonate with your visitors: Respect for authority (Romans 13), appreciation, gratitude, service, etc.

7) Allow your visitors to be the first in the serving line.

8) Encourage your members to mix and mingle with the guests during the meal.

9) You may or may not do personal recognitions of the guests. I typically have chosen not to so as to not embarrass anyone.

Do people actually come to these Appreciation days?

Yes!!!

How many?

We’ve had as few as 5 and as many as 55. In Cody, WY we actually had a couple of times where we had more visitors than we had members on an Appreciation Day!

Any closing suggestions?

Just this: an Appreciation Day is not an occasion to "recruit" new members. It is a day to open yourself up to serve others simply for the joy of service. Many of your visitors will already be members of other churches and are not interested in leaving where they are. The purpose of an Appreciation Day is to show appreciation and develop relationships. God is free to do what he wants to with that in his time.

If your congregation hosts an Appreciation Day, please revisit this blog and leave a comment on how it went.

Thanks!
Warren Baldwin

12 comments:

  1. Thanks for commenting on my blog!

    I like this idea a lot. I've been wanting to put together an "Impact Awards" banquet where our church would honor those in the community making an impact. I think this could go right along with something like that. Thanks,

    Jason

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  2. Thanks Jason. This would work. Let me know how it goes!

    I just made a new post about marriage from Prov. 5. The short version is here http://warrenbaldwin.blogspot.com/ and it links to the long one, if you'd like to read it.

    Thanks for visiting!
    Warren

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  3. This is really nice Brother Baldwin. Our family recently returned to the U.S. after eight years overseas, where we were added to the Lord's Body, and just this past August the youth of our congregation hosted an appreciation breakfast.

    This was the first I'd attended or even heard of and I feel that it was a very good idea and turn out as well!

    The information you have provided here gives insight for suggestions for our next one, thanks!

    Larie

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  4. We are having an appreciation day at church in June. I have forwarded your post to my pastor. thank you for this!

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  5. Larie (Proverbs 27:19) and Allen,

    Thanks for your comments. I hope an appreciation day works well for your congregations!

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  6. Thanks for visiting my blog Warren. I agree with you that we in the church must become more involved in our communities in practical acts of love. Besides the AIDS kits we packaged, I responded to you in my blog with the following.
    The AIDS kits were only part of a multi-team effort we called Compassion Weekend. No services were held at any of our five campuses. We had ministry teams doing the AIDS kits, others restoring a school in a poor area of town needing many repairs and refurbishment. Many brought food bags for one of the local food pantries. There were ministry teams visiting nursing homes, shut ins, some working with Habitat for Humanity and a host of other activities.
    We are hoping that out of this effort there will be people who will sense a calling for social justice ministries to those who need it. I know of one small group who are talking about adopting a school teacher and helping to supply her with whatever she needs to teach her classes.
    It's more than sitting in the pew. It's the body in action.
    Richard

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  7. Awesome idea!! I love it. Thanks for the comment/complements. I'm honored. Looking forward to reading more from you.

    Thanks,

    Amanda

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  8. Great idea. Many years ago a friend, Norvel Young told me to do this kind of thing for the community. God bless you in this outreach.

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  9. Thanks for sharing this to us, Warren. I learned a lot from this post.
    God bless you.

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  10. Everyone ... I am closing this blog. I don't have time to work on it. I have another blog that I give most of my time to, Family Fountain, and another that I give minimal time to, Bible Fountain. This blog gets sorely neglected! So, if you are interested in following any of my work, please check out these other two blogs.

    I will close this one after April 28 when I re-post this article on Bible Fountain.

    Thank you all for your support! WB

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  11. Warren,

    Nice to come and visit. I have been working hard towards my MDiv and ministry has picked up over the last year. I am now a minister with a pastor title, thing have not changed ; )

    Your post could be the answer to my recent post.

    Are you still teaching?

    Pax robin

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